My penis is about 8.5-9″ long (insertable, not measuring under the “taint”, but from the top of the base tot he tip), 6.5-7″ thick (look at your common “double” roll of toilet tissue, the core of it won’t pass the head).

When I see my penis, I see a 2″ itty bitty thing. Boring, nothing impressive. My previous partners and current “partner” says I’m incredibly wrong with what I perceive.

I’ve seen a lot of penises in my life, measured quite a biggest, and I rarely encounter one larger than mine–in fact, I’ve never (so, in short, guys who claim to have 10″+ are more than likely lying).

I don’t believe that black guys have larger penises than white guys, as I have dated a white guy with a penis that embarrassed me. While we never measured, it definitely looked that way. My current “partner” is very well endowed, a white guy, and there are times where it’s difficult to tell who’s is bigger. I’ve definitely got him on the thickness, but length it’s hard to tell–it really depends on who is enjoying the activities more.

Guys who compare to folks in porn are comparing apples to oranges. Camera angle, focal length (of lens), and the size/weight of the model can drastically change what you perceive. So stop.

While I discussed my penis when erect, I have conveniently bypassed discussions of it in a flaccid state. That’s mainly because its not worth mentioning. I’m what the gay boys like to call “a grower, not a shower.”

In flaccid state, my penis is literally about 2.5-3″, with no girth whatsoever.

A large penis is a novelty. Something that girls (and guys) like to brag about. The fact is, they aren’t that wonderful. I’ve had situations where I couldn’t penetrate because of the perceived size. To those hetero-guys out there, who have been told by a ex or soon-to-be ex that their penises were small–ignore that. Men are so wrapped up in the size of their junk and women know it, so the first thing they tell you to hurt you is that “they’ve had bigger.”

So, in closing, as a guy with a penis that is by all comparisons is pretty large, it’s pretty lame to be focused on the size of your junk. You can have a huge one and not satisfy a partner, and you can have a “tiny” one that rocks their world. Be happy with what you have. Short of expensive surgeries that can end up causing more damage than increasing your size, you’re stuck with it.

As a friend of mine has told me–who is very average, probably sub-average, “Every time i touch it, I get it excited.”