The Female Orgasm Explained
The sexual revolution of the '70s has allowed women to claim their right to pleasure and to better know their body. However, 30 years later, the female orgasm remains mysterious to a lot of people - both men and women.
Most of us can recall that scene in the movie "When Harry Met Sally" and Meg Ryan is moaning and groaning having an alleged orgasm. In the movie she is obviously faking it. The movie endeavors to show that women have the ability to confuse or mislead their men into believing that they are actually having and orgasm.
Unfortunately for men, no matter how much they scream or moan, they cannot fake an orgasm - as well, let's face it, a masculine orgasm is rather messy.
During the 1970's the sexual revolution enabled women the ability to lay claim to a right of pleasure in the bedroom; for the first time in public society, women were able to better understand their own bodies and discover what it actually is that enables/causes the orgasm. However, we are now 40 years since that revolution and for many men the onset and occurrence of feminine orgasm remains a total mystery.
The orgasm issue still remains a myth especially the female orgasm... hypehopza.com
name a hot sexy woman i will show you european heritage or latino at least and amazing bodies m, american women have the most ugly flat bodies ever like sharon stone, helen hunt etc
why do you think all the victoria secret models are imported mainly from BRAZIL
kate upton - german, irish heritage
beyonce - european heritage
sofia vergara - latino heritage
monica belucci - italian heritage
jlo - latino
name one hot american woman who is hot and sexual and is 100% yank
EH MAYBE BECAUSE THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS AN AMERICAN AS THEY ROBBED THE LAND FROM NATIVE AMERICANS
ALL THE MEN COMMENTING HERE YOU DONT HAVE A VAGINA SO YOU HAVE NO WAY OF OPINIONATING ON THIS SO SHUT THE F...... UP THANK YOU
Also as a european i noticed the french and other european women being interviewed really are the most sensual women
i cant imagine carrie bradshaw in sex in the city trying to fake having an orgasm - the whole cast of sex and the city were ironically anything but sexy
If the women I have been with have been faking it honestly I don't care. They are only letting themselves down by not communicating it. I am not a lazy person in the bedroom and am always willing to listen to the needs of a women and would not be offended if something was not working. If they do fake it so be it just a shame women feel the need to.
i've had sex with multiple partners, both male and female, orgies, 3- and 4-somes, mostly men but sometimes women ... and i've never ever had an orgasm. my body doesn't enjoy sex, even though i've tried and tried. perhaps it's because i have Asperger's and don't enjoy being touched -- i would guess so. Asperger's is bad for orgasm, but it has its other benefits, and i guess i'll have to live with them. tant pis!
Generally, yes, the women who DO fake orgasms tend to do it because they're afraid of hurting the guy's feelings... but there are two sides to that which you need to understand.
Sometimes women fake orgasms because they don't know HOW to communicate effectively with their partner, or because their partner just isn't very good at reading their signals. They don't want to go through the heartache of telling him that he's got bad technique (usually because they really do like the guy and want him to be happy) and so they pretend that they've reached an orgasm anyway. It's not about "mind games". It's almost always about love and compassion for their partner. Honestly, for a lot of women, an orgasm isn't the be-all and end-all of sex anyway.
more open and hey girls more Major O.s to have sex with a stranger what a turn on yes please yum yum,and to have a change of sex friend or buddy does not make you a slut,far from it who is enjoying life more you or her,love to slap your bum
yeah it might have been mind-blowing - it might well last a lifetime but ALL things that begin MUST end - and there must be a planet in the universe somewhere where the Big O.s last for millenia - but that is not the highest heaven where God as God is the greatest eternal pleasure - and there is HIV and AIDS if you get to thinking that the BIG O is God - you might get careless as to who you achieve it with - if that is your ultimate aim in life - but the ultimate aim is to be able to escape this world where you are born only to die - to a place where they don't marry don't consummate marriage and don't need to reproduce (the main reason why Allah made sex pleasurable in the first place - if it did not feel good why would you want to do it for any reason, huh?) bcause they live forever there - those who can escape from Earth to that highest heaven, amen?
i think its fantastic to have discrete sex with a lover,,i am a male in his early 50s,,asian,,living in asia,,but i studied in the USA for my undergrad,,i can relate to the large spectrum of female orgasms,,clit,,vagi,,g,,and i agree that the female is far more sexxy and has much more erogenous zones for arousal than us males,,and yess,,i love the moans and screams of the female during orgasm,,its such a lovely turn on,,and i know she aint faking,,infact those who have been with chinese/japanes girls know that they make ALOT of noise,,with each thrust!!,,ONE OBSERVATION: why they never spoke of the throbbing in the clit nd vagina and perhaps the whole body,,thats what give away the orgasm for the female,,i think we men cant get fooled by the vocals as we measure with the throbbing accompanying the sounds!!,,all in all,,educational,,frank,,natural,,and covers a complex topic with such ease,,WELL DONE GUYS!!!,,,VIVEK
know the real fact......thanks
Seriously...Cecil is r*tarded.
this was a fantastic documentary imo and i can't help but feel lucky after reading these comments that ive experienced an orgasm while some ladies out there never have. I truly think that it's about knowing your body and being comfortable with it. And the fine lady in the black tee with the ponytail is gorgeousssssss
I'd like to know who produced this documentary and if it is possible to get in touch with them? Thanks
I found my orgasm, l lost it many many years ago, wow what a feeling, oh my god, everybody on this earth should be orgasmic all the time, imagine less crap on the plannet.
Having found my orgasm two decades later, all I can is wow. Oh my god what a feeling, I wish I could have orgasm's all day and night, everybody should be the same, what a great place earth would be.
I think men seriously never understand a woman desire....i respect woman and i know they too have feeling and pleassure inside which they really want to full fill...because its a men's world woman never get alowed to express there desire openly to their men...i have been in a relation for long and from her i realised how a woman have a wild side hiden inside her...female do get orgasm..but yes its not so easy as men gets..they need to be aroused, not just physically but also emotionaly...because woman just dont crave for sex...they need a mixture of love, emotion, passion and desire...you have to make her feel ease so that she can slowly and gradulay open her self in front of you...the more you alow her to open herself in front of you the more she feel comfertable in acheiving orgasm...so yes woman need orgasm to feel better but most importantly to respect and admire her men who made her satisfy her inner feelings.,
hmm.. i was suprised at how lame and uneducational this doco was for me... didnt seem to teach me anything beyond what even a 14 year old knows. It just seem to be a few women talking about what they like in bed. Big deal. I thought most of this was common knowledge, like the women pondering whether the female Gspot was a myth. Seriously? Is this the middle ages? But on a better note that short haired chick in the black singlet was HAAWWTT!!! and her voice..hmm.. yum yum
Wow, I'm sad to see so many jerks posting on here... had to stop reading. I found this film very helpful and these women really put themselves out there and they deserve respect. Your opinions can be posted elsewhere.
Only thing I would say is...as someone else mentioned...these women are lucky. As a woman who has never achieved orgasm, yes it was helpful, but would love to hear from some more women from my perspective. I am a very open, confident and sexual young woman and the female orgasm is still a mystery to me... and this film made me feel a bit alone, when I'm pretty darn sure I'm not...
Let me just say that female sexuality and orgasm are NOT mysteries. They are simply just what they are. Female orgasm is JUST an orgasm, like all others, achieved by pleasure and stimulation. You people need to stop hyping women up to be these super complex creatures, they're not. They're different, but not more complex. Neither is female sexuality. Also ,the longest an average womans orgasm can last is about 5 mins, to the person who said a woman had a 30 min non-stop org. is probably lying. That isn't possible with human beings, or it is extremely rare.
"During the 1970?s the sexual revolution enabled women the ability to lay claim to a right of pleasure in the bedroom;"
You think they couldn't before? They probably could, but not even men did back then. In those times people only had sex to have children. So even men didn't have the 'right of pleasure'.
I notice how you people also try to put down the male orgasm while you bring up and over-exaggerate the female one. There is MUCH more to the male orgasm and pleasure than you think. Men just achieve their faster, but that is an evolutionary need, idiots.
That chick was all like 'if I don't cum - YOU can GO! BRUTAL!!!
I have not seen the film, but being a guy and reading some of these comments I think we all have different orgasms with different people and positions. I have found women to be emotional. Meaning they prefer an emotional connection to their partner, if they have this along with trust through some communication about sex a whole world can be opened up for them. My girlfriend an I have the best sex life either of us has ever had. Sometimes she screams, sometimes she tries to crawl away, sometimes she holds her breath. Depending on what part of her vagina I stimulate can determine her orgasm. But the key i feel was an openness through communication that allowed each of us to be 100% comfortable with each other. My 2 cents :)
one of the best documentaries i have ever seen. in fact most important documentary especially for the one who dont cares or dont thinks of their female partners oganism. by this we can learn that its the basic responsability of man to make women get her organsm and make them aned give them happiness just as men get from them.
Most women even educated & professionals are ignorant about their genital anatomy, physiology and sexuality. Women can not even look at their genital unless they squat on a mirror (or see the light of the day). Many nurses even with 10 years experience in medical field are unable to catheterize a female patient. For woman the orgasm is a total experience, requires a complete aura and experience and behavior can vary greatly from a woman to woman. As for man it's only penile exercise, same for everybody (wham bam thank you mam, desire & act ending with ejaculation) . Man ends with orgasm as woman is just beginning with orgasm. Woman's sexual & orgasmic potential is enormous but she can not achieve or even imagine it, by herself or get full satisfaction by masturbation. Woman needs to be worked on achieve intense multiple orgasms and even squirting every time by right partner ( by right digital & oral stimulation of G spot, continued digital stimulation can achieve multiple orgasms which is not possible by penile penetration). Once they are able to achieve intense multiple G spot orgasms especially on full bladder every thing else(like Clitoral) is pale. Then they crave for that state of ecstasy again and again. Woman's sexuality is like a sleeping tiger rarely awakened or experienced by most of them.
boobs size doesnt matter.. matters if they look cute, are shapely and proportionate. Second thing.. woman self confidence about her boobs depends on wisdom and love of her partner. If woman is unlucky to be with fellow who likes only big breasts (which finally with the time will fall on the ground bcos of the gravity laws and their weight :) ) she should imidiately! change the guy not her boobs...
Having an orgasm for me has never really been an issue, and I guess now I know how lucky I am. The only thing I used to be very self concious and nervous of is that fact that I gush/squirt when I have a g-spot orgasm, I was always worried guys would have thought I'd peed or something.
This was the BEST documentary I've ever seen on female orgasms. I was surprised at the honesty and forthright communication between the women.
This is very interesting. I am amazed that still there is so little research done, when it comes to female sexuality. There could have been much more information though, alongside the personal stories and such. 1+
Im sorry i just don't find this film really enlightening about the full spectrum of female orgasm. First of there is a large % of woman that will never orgasm... and it's not because their not "in the mood" or other stereotypical explanations like that. Its clinically impossible. Second the majority of woman will not have a non-clitoral orgasm, period. I was really disturbed that the last woman could only have an orgasm by divorcing her husband and finding another. So this means if you don't have one to keep sleeping around till you do? That the person you and love and marry just isn't good enough- or god forbid your just broken. BS.
PLEASE post a documentary that talks about ALLL aspects of female orgasm- not just about the small % of woman that are lucky. Oh and last thing- the screaming is SOO from brainwashing by the movies. A female orgasm makes you want to hold your breath and curl into a ball... not scream... that fake or done out of expectation.
i love the ladies story at the end the most :) so touching :)
I thought I was bleeding to death when I had a G-spot orgasm for the first time. It was a new break in sexuality for me. Unreal. I thought only a fantasy. Amazing film.
I don't think a man could fake ejaculation. Semen runs out of the vagina and on to the sheets or your thighs.
Since I have been a nurse for twenty five years, I think this film is good. Just for women to speak of orgasm is a freedom most are afraid to take. I was 32 after having three children until in nursing school, I discover urine didn't just flow out of the vagina. I was never told to take a good look at a woman's anatomy, being my own. Any sexual education of women is good in my thoughts. Thank you for the wonderful film. Educational.
That was so poorly made but I still liked watching it.
lolz at beginning: "Cecile just had an orgasm"
Scared the hell out of me :D
This movie was excellent. I'm pretty inexperienced and new, and curious to these things, so I just try and educate myself. This was very entertaining and insightful. I thought the ending was nice but sad. Nice that the beautiful old lady got to experience pleasure, but sad that she's still alone. I was hoping they stayed together had a happy ending...but I guess that's life.
Do you all get off on arguing, or what?
It is what it is.
Take it or leave it.
Textual convos are really inconsequential so go
have a cuppa and chat face to face.
BE CURIOUS and LEARN
Oh Man oh My you my friend are something special LOL
@Danica - Well I did get the leg you pulled on Djamal and it was really well pulled :) next time rip it girl rip it good LOL... thank you.
@Djamal - My man sometimes it is important to put your professional title away... I will sometimes (uncover my professional title) myself - nonetheless, it doesn't mean that I'll be automatically right because I tell the world my professional title. But frankly following you title I didn't match what you were trying to say with the subject treated on this video.
The document wasn't a sociological picture... it was an informal document about woman's sexuality (orgasm if you will). And it doesn't matter if they go in a small village in the North Pole interviewing with Inuits woman (now that would be interesting - LOL) if the woman are willing to answer voluntary about their sexuality. Thus, informing other woman and man about female's orgasm. What do you need a 10000 people's survey on sexual orgasm, it wasn't a research about a woman having orgasm or whatnot it was a opinion sketch.
I really did appreciate the video... first because I didn't have to read those subtitles LOL and that the very last lady charmed me by her message and honesty. And yeah Djamal... Frenchmen/woman just so you know are very good socially speaking... they produced few of the great contemporary philosophers, thinkers and social scientists... does Baron de Montesquieu, Emile Durkheim, Des Cartes rings some bells to you... if you want to do a research there is always La Sorbonne that you can refer too.
Forget the technic... review the video again and don't tell me that you haven't learn something new... don't lie Djamal. Mom is watching is watching you... cheers!
@Charles B. that wasn't Porn... if you want porn I'll give you a link that would pop your eyes out LOL... But it's clearly against your principles so I understand if you pass LOL.
How could the last guy be sooo mean, what a jackass!
LOL ProudinUS, you're a trip!!
In response to deKay, I could use some batteries about now : )
sorry about my sentance structure.
If that's true,I'll go invest all my money in G*d d^m money in Eveready!
A recent survey has uncovered the fact that women are now having sex with their husbands more often. Doctors are puzzled by this but speculate that the reason for this is the economy.......they can't afford the batteries any more!
Hey, Mr. ProudinUS, some lucky girl you got there??!! Your comment wins "BEST MESSED RESPONSE"... to date ughhhhhh
Well I've been married a while and the fact is:
-I don't care.The last thing I want to see is my wife's
fat a$$ squirming around like a pot bellied pig having
some kind of an epoletic like orgasm.
-I don't want to hear her f%cking moaning either.She sounds like one of them turkey gobbles.It just doesn't sound right.She's my wife for god's sake.
-All love making at home is done after dark with lights off
Mother nature is started to zap some wrinkles in places I will not be able to take if seen in light.
-My main goal is to be pleased in the quickest way possible
before she starts slobbering on my neck and does that annoying hip grinding sh$t.Gives me the f*cking Willies.
I pump, you groan a little.Say a couple I love yous and then I need the two foot rule space(actually more because at some point in time we're gonna wind up talking about something stupid and stay there and want more,
She's been moaning for years.Wander if shes actually aroused or not?T hat's one of the advantages of being me.
I don't give a sh*t if that lady is satisfied. As a matter of fact I was thinking of early retirement from sexual incounters with the wife.
Maybe I'll buy her one of them sex toys, like some harry a$$ beads or something of that nature.Don't care as long as her old a$$ ain't slobbering and copping a feel on me.Gives me the creeps espesially when you see them bird flaps shes accuired recently under her arms reaching for you.F^cking
nasty.I've done my tour of duty.It's time modern technology
take over and pleasure the women I love.
Didn,t care then and why the hell would I do it now.Must find some sort of deversoin to get the h%ll away
Btw Thanks Vlatko, I realy enjoyed this video :-)
hahaha.. This was porno and some documentary in it. But still I loved it! :-)
And they way this girls talked, just loved it :-) loved it :-)
Viva la Di-France or Viva la difference!!!