The Female Orgasm Explained
The sexual revolution of the '70s has allowed women to claim their right to pleasure and to better know their body. However, 30 years later, the female orgasm remains mysterious to a lot of people - both men and women.
Most of us can recall that scene in the movie "When Harry Met Sally" and Meg Ryan is moaning and groaning having an alleged orgasm. In the movie she is obviously faking it. The movie endeavors to show that women have the ability to confuse or mislead their men into believing that they are actually having and orgasm.
Unfortunately for men, no matter how much they scream or moan, they cannot fake an orgasm - as well, let's face it, a masculine orgasm is rather messy.
During the 1970's the sexual revolution enabled women the ability to lay claim to a right of pleasure in the bedroom; for the first time in public society, women were able to better understand their own bodies and discover what it actually is that enables/causes the orgasm. However, we are now 40 years since that revolution and for many men the onset and occurrence of feminine orgasm remains a total mystery.
The orgasm issue still remains a myth especially the female orgasm... hypehopza.com
name a hot sexy woman i will show you european heritage or latino at least and amazing bodies m, american women have the most ugly flat bodies ever like sharon stone, helen hunt etc
why do you think all the victoria secret models are imported mainly from BRAZIL
kate upton - german, irish heritage
beyonce - european heritage
sofia vergara - latino heritage
monica belucci - italian heritage
jlo - latino
name one hot american woman who is hot and sexual and is 100% yank
NONE
EH MAYBE BECAUSE THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS AN AMERICAN AS THEY ROBBED THE LAND FROM NATIVE AMERICANS
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ALL THE MEN COMMENTING HERE YOU DONT HAVE A VAGINA SO YOU HAVE NO WAY OF OPINIONATING ON THIS SO SHUT THE F...... UP THANK YOU
Also as a european i noticed the french and other european women being interviewed really are the most sensual women
i cant imagine carrie bradshaw in sex in the city trying to fake having an orgasm - the whole cast of sex and the city were ironically anything but sexy
If the women I have been with have been faking it honestly I don't care. They are only letting themselves down by not communicating it. I am not a lazy person in the bedroom and am always willing to listen to the needs of a women and would not be offended if something was not working. If they do fake it so be it just a shame women feel the need to.
i've had sex with multiple partners, both male and female, orgies, 3- and 4-somes, mostly men but sometimes women ... and i've never ever had an orgasm. my body doesn't enjoy sex, even though i've tried and tried. perhaps it's because i have Asperger's and don't enjoy being touched -- i would guess so. Asperger's is bad for orgasm, but it has its other benefits, and i guess i'll have to live with them. tant pis!
Generally, yes, the women who DO fake orgasms tend to do it because they're afraid of hurting the guy's feelings... but there are two sides to that which you need to understand.
Sometimes women fake orgasms because they don't know HOW to communicate effectively with their partner, or because their partner just isn't very good at reading their signals. They don't want to go through the heartache of telling him that he's got bad technique (usually because they really do like the guy and want him to be happy) and so they pretend that they've reached an orgasm anyway. It's not about "mind games". It's almost always about love and compassion for their partner. Honestly, for a lot of women, an orgasm isn't the be-all and end-all of sex anyway.
more open and hey girls more Major O.s to have sex with a stranger what a turn on yes please yum yum,and to have a change of sex friend or buddy does not make you a slut,far from it who is enjoying life more you or her,love to slap your bum
yeah it might have been mind-blowing - it might well last a lifetime but ALL things that begin MUST end - and there must be a planet in the universe somewhere where the Big O.s last for millenia - but that is not the highest heaven where God as God is the greatest eternal pleasure - and there is HIV and AIDS if you get to thinking that the BIG O is God - you might get careless as to who you achieve it with - if that is your ultimate aim in life - but the ultimate aim is to be able to escape this world where you are born only to die - to a place where they don't marry don't consummate marriage and don't need to reproduce (the main reason why Allah made sex pleasurable in the first place - if it did not feel good why would you want to do it for any reason, huh?) bcause they live forever there - those who can escape from Earth to that highest heaven, amen?
i think its fantastic to have discrete sex with a lover,,i am a male in his early 50s,,asian,,living in asia,,but i studied in the USA for my undergrad,,i can relate to the large spectrum of female orgasms,,clit,,vagi,,g,,and i agree that the female is far more sexxy and has much more erogenous zones for arousal than us males,,and yess,,i love the moans and screams of the female during orgasm,,its such a lovely turn on,,and i know she aint faking,,infact those who have been with chinese/japanes girls know that they make ALOT of noise,,with each thrust!!,,ONE OBSERVATION: why they never spoke of the throbbing in the clit nd vagina and perhaps the whole body,,thats what give away the orgasm for the female,,i think we men cant get fooled by the vocals as we measure with the throbbing accompanying the sounds!!,,all in all,,educational,,frank,,natural,,and covers a complex topic with such ease,,WELL DONE GUYS!!!,,,VIVEK
know the real fact......thanks
great education
Seriously...Cecil is r*tarded.
this was a fantastic documentary imo and i can't help but feel lucky after reading these comments that ive experienced an orgasm while some ladies out there never have. I truly think that it's about knowing your body and being comfortable with it. And the fine lady in the black tee with the ponytail is gorgeousssssss
I'd like to know who produced this documentary and if it is possible to get in touch with them? Thanks
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I found my orgasm, l lost it many many years ago, wow what a feeling, oh my god, everybody on this earth should be orgasmic all the time, imagine less crap on the plannet.
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Having found my orgasm two decades later, all I can is wow. Oh my god what a feeling, I wish I could have orgasm's all day and night, everybody should be the same, what a great place earth would be.
I think men seriously never understand a woman desire....i respect woman and i know they too have feeling and pleassure inside which they really want to full fill...because its a men's world woman never get alowed to express there desire openly to their men...i have been in a relation for long and from her i realised how a woman have a wild side hiden inside her...female do get orgasm..but yes its not so easy as men gets..they need to be aroused, not just physically but also emotionaly...because woman just dont crave for sex...they need a mixture of love, emotion, passion and desire...you have to make her feel ease so that she can slowly and gradulay open her self in front of you...the more you alow her to open herself in front of you the more she feel comfertable in acheiving orgasm...so yes woman need orgasm to feel better but most importantly to respect and admire her men who made her satisfy her inner feelings.,
hmm.. i was suprised at how lame and uneducational this doco was for me... didnt seem to teach me anything beyond what even a 14 year old knows. It just seem to be a few women talking about what they like in bed. Big deal. I thought most of this was common knowledge, like the women pondering whether the female Gspot was a myth. Seriously? Is this the middle ages? But on a better note that short haired chick in the black singlet was HAAWWTT!!! and her voice..hmm.. yum yum
Wow, I'm sad to see so many jerks posting on here... had to stop reading. I found this film very helpful and these women really put themselves out there and they deserve respect. Your opinions can be posted elsewhere.
Only thing I would say is...as someone else mentioned...these women are lucky. As a woman who has never achieved orgasm, yes it was helpful, but would love to hear from some more women from my perspective. I am a very open, confident and sexual young woman and the female orgasm is still a mystery to me... and this film made me feel a bit alone, when I'm pretty darn sure I'm not...
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Let me just say that female sexuality and orgasm are NOT mysteries. They are simply just what they are. Female orgasm is JUST an orgasm, like all others, achieved by pleasure and stimulation. You people need to stop hyping women up to be these super complex creatures, they're not. They're different, but not more complex. Neither is female sexuality. Also ,the longest an average womans orgasm can last is about 5 mins, to the person who said a woman had a 30 min non-stop org. is probably lying. That isn't possible with human beings, or it is extremely rare.
"During the 1970?s the sexual revolution enabled women the ability to lay claim to a right of pleasure in the bedroom;"
You think they couldn't before? They probably could, but not even men did back then. In those times people only had sex to have children. So even men didn't have the 'right of pleasure'.
I notice how you people also try to put down the male orgasm while you bring up and over-exaggerate the female one. There is MUCH more to the male orgasm and pleasure than you think. Men just achieve their faster, but that is an evolutionary need, idiots.
That chick was all like 'if I don't cum - YOU can GO! BRUTAL!!!
I have not seen the film, but being a guy and reading some of these comments I think we all have different orgasms with different people and positions. I have found women to be emotional. Meaning they prefer an emotional connection to their partner, if they have this along with trust through some communication about sex a whole world can be opened up for them. My girlfriend an I have the best sex life either of us has ever had. Sometimes she screams, sometimes she tries to crawl away, sometimes she holds her breath. Depending on what part of her vagina I stimulate can determine her orgasm. But the key i feel was an openness through communication that allowed each of us to be 100% comfortable with each other. My 2 cents :)
one of the best documentaries i have ever seen. in fact most important documentary especially for the one who dont cares or dont thinks of their female partners oganism. by this we can learn that its the basic responsability of man to make women get her organsm and make them aned give them happiness just as men get from them.
Most women even educated & professionals are ignorant about their genital anatomy, physiology and sexuality. Women can not even look at their genital unless they squat on a mirror (or see the light of the day). Many nurses even with 10 years experience in medical field are unable to catheterize a female patient. For woman the orgasm is a total experience, requires a complete aura and experience and behavior can vary greatly from a woman to woman. As for man it's only penile exercise, same for everybody (wham bam thank you mam, desire & act ending with ejaculation) . Man ends with orgasm as woman is just beginning with orgasm. Woman's sexual & orgasmic potential is enormous but she can not achieve or even imagine it, by herself or get full satisfaction by masturbation. Woman needs to be worked on achieve intense multiple orgasms and even squirting every time by right partner ( by right digital & oral stimulation of G spot, continued digital stimulation can achieve multiple orgasms which is not possible by penile penetration). Once they are able to achieve intense multiple G spot orgasms especially on full bladder every thing else(like Clitoral) is pale. Then they crave for that state of ecstasy again and again. Woman's sexuality is like a sleeping tiger rarely awakened or experienced by most of them.