My Small Breasts and I

My Small Breasts and I

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My Small Breasts and IMy Small Breasts and I uncovers the complex, poignant, and sometimes amusing relationship women have with their tiny breasts.

Talking candidly, three women reveal how they really feel about their own bodies and the lengths to which they'll go to change their situation.

Sharon Tan is 28, and one of the three small-chested women featured on this film, seems the most well-adjusted. It isn’t clear whether this is because she’s naturally laid back or if her perspective was helped by having a boyfriend (Bronson) who’s clearly mad about her and happy to put up with no cuddles for 12 weeks while she stuffs her tits into a suction cup every night for 11 hours in an effort to swell them to a C cup.

Kate Bailey, 22 is said to be too scared to go out because she thinks everyone is looking at her. When she gets the chance to visit a phototherapist in New York however, she somehow manages to drag herself out to buy some new clothes, and the flight to the Big Apple doesn’t seem to daunt her overmuch either.

Laura Taylor has wanted a boob job since she was 14 but she can’t afford it. She’s discovered a website where men will help towards the cost in exchange for photos and emails from her. Armed with this potential source of income she visits a doctor to explore her implant options, and sits in on the surgery where a new-found friend is expanded to a D cup.

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gary
gary
5 months ago

leave them as is you should be happy with them i hate big tits

Andrew....
Andrew....
3 years ago

this is so strange to me.....I only date tiny breasted women...big boobs stink,,,from all the sweat under them,,,Gross,,and very unhealthy......Cheers to small tits....

billace123123
billace123123
3 years ago

All breast size,shape to me are good. I so love the look ,shape,feel of small and tiny breast. and any man or woman who cheets is a scum bag. IF you are not happy do the right thing and break up first. anyone who cheat is a low life.

Mac
Mac
3 years ago

I'm a hot guy, tall, big D, and have everything going for me, so I always believe I deserve the best. I've tried dating the itty bitty titty club (flat chested, small boobs, small tits, small breasts) a few times and I ended up CHEATING ON ALL OF THEM. One of them caught me cheating and ironically it made her want me MORE. I'll get back to that in a minute. It just gets old after awhile having nothing to squeeze, and you see hotter women out in public with nice cleavage and big tits, then you remember what you're missing out on.

I'm living in the San Francisco Bay Area, moved here from SoCal. It seems like all the flat-chested women moved to NorCal. I've definitely had to downgrade my dating options since moving up here, most women are at best a full A cup. In SoCal it was the opposite, hot women everywhere with at least a big C cup and I bedded many of them.

When I got to NorCal I dated a few small breasted women and cheated on all of them with bigger breasted women. The one positive I found with the women up here is, they've rarely seen a dick my size yet. Many say I'm their biggest yet. Very odd, since this is a relatively big area, and SF has always been known for it's sex scene and sex clubs. I've been conquering tons of women up here, turning them into Size Queens on a regular basis.

One (who lived out near Stockton Modesto area) even caught me cheating (buzzing iphone on the bed, she saw the incoming picture). I'd be lying if I said I didn't care if she caught me or not, I knew she wasn't going anywhere. That's why I didn't mind leaving my phone out where she could see it. She was mid 30s, 5'2 and 100 lbs, AA cup tits, smoker and had a kid already. I ended up cheating very quickly after we started dating.

I was in the bathroom when the text came in and when I came out she looks sort of mad but trying to control herself and says, "She's sexy I can see why you like her." She held up the phone and I told her straight up that I needed bigger tits to squeeze occasionally. She looked a bit shocked I'd say that right to her face. She was mad and silent for the rest of the day but the next day she opened up and told me she knew I'd end up cheating, because I'm hot and have a huge dick, so she knew I could always upgrade if I wanted to. Also, we didn't live together, I told her straight up I'd never move in with any female, especially if she already had rug-rats. She was fine with that.

And here's where the code was cracked for me, in regard to the mentality of chics with small tits. They are ALWAYS insecure about their lack of boobs and she told me that she's always hated how small her boobs were, but she could never settle for a guy who told her it was fine or that he liked smaller breasts. She said she never believed them when they said it, so she always desired a man who preferred bigger breasts. She said it felt like she was getting a CATCH since she knows most guys will go for a woman with bigger tits if given the choice, so she sort of looks down on men who settle for women with smaller chested / flat chest / flat chested women.

I was sort of surprised when she said all this, but I knew her insecurities would keep her around no matter what I did, her and I both knew she couldn't do better than me even if she tried. I knew after she told me all this though that I had a huge upper hand and I used it to my advantage. I told her she could still be my **** toy, but I would always be out there tryin to find chics with bigger tits. She called me an ass but then said OK BUT JUST DON'T TELL ME ABOUT THEM. I told her she was mine though and I wouldn't allow her to sleep with other dudes. She sort of laughed and I said I'm serious.

I was also exploring BDSM at that time and told her that she was now my BDSM Submissive. I told her to do random things like wear a small butt plug around the house at all times, or deprive her of pussy pleasures and fuck her in the ass until she earned enough 'good girl' points to receive pleasurable vaginal sex. She never said NO to anything I told her to do. So my cheating worked, she never went out with other men, let alone slept with them, and I always looked in her phone to make sure she wasn't talking to other men. She knew I was ****ing other women with bigger tits (I showed her the apps I was using on my iPhone, I found that particular Double D (DD) chic on POF Plentyoffish, but I also use Tinder, Bumble, Okcupid, Fetlife etc..).

Me cheating on her with a superior woman with bigger tits was the key to unlock all of this and bring out her insecurities full throttle! This led me down a path that opened my eyes to women with small tits and how they secretly and instinctively know they are inferior and will try harder to make up for it. This chic I was dating with small tits, started trying to wear pushup bras or padded bras to accentuate her cleavage, I would always laugh and pull really hard on the middle of her shirt and bra, making her tits deflate right away. I started dating a few more with smaller tits at the same time and cheated on them too. Every single one knew upfront that I preferred bigger tits. ALL OF THEM.

I would even throw curveballs and tell them that I'm actually polyamorous, and you'd be surprised how many told me that they were willing to share me with other women too. Most of these women with small tits know they are not the ones holding the cards in the dating game, and if you can show them past Girlfriends GFs, FWBs, or ONS (One Night Stands) who had better bodies and bigger tits, you'll bring that insecurity out of them, which gives you leverage to do things like cheat or have other women involved in the relationship.

I now boldly tell chics that I prefer bigger tits and that I see smaller breasted females as inferior. Wouldn't you know it, women with smaller tits were flocking to me on dating sites or Fetish sites like FETLIFE who told me that it turns them on when men degrade them for their small tits and that they hate when men say they prefer smaller boobs.

On the opposite end of the spectrum, I hear women with bigger tits privately tell me (pillow talk) that they know they are superior, which is why they try to show off their cleavage as much as possible. They know more men will pay attention to them and they know women with smaller breasts will be jealous. I met this Cougar in Mill Valley, California (just north of the Golden Gate Bridge) with nice big tits (Double Ds, possibly could wear an E Cup). She was in her 40s, but still had a good body (5'3, 110 lbs. huge DD to E cup tits). She said there is a mutually understood code among women, where they all know the one with bigger tits will get more attention from men. She purposely befriends women with smaller breasts, because she knows this and sees it firsthand when she goes out for girl's night.

When I'm talking to or 'dating' (more like **** buddies who think they've snagged me) chics with small tits, I like to show them my past convos with bigger chested women like this, because I know they'll become more insecure and let me get away with more. It works every damn time too.

Does this mean I'll never **** with chics who have small tits, of course not! They tend to be more insecure and thus, way more submissive. They try harder to please in the sack and let me get away with pushing boundaries too. I have had many subs and a few slaves, most of which had smaller breasts. But I gotta be real, what really turns me on is a slender to average body type (not fat or obese) with perky tits, that fill up a bit more than my hand. It looks so sexy when a woman with bigger breasts is standing next to me, with perfect cleavage showing in a tight top and/or a bikini. It's like added value on my arm. If she can fill out a 'Hooters' shirt and work there (without anyone questioning it), I'm way more turned on.

Ben M.
Ben M.
3 years ago

You know that you've got life pretty good when you're main concern is the size of your tits.

flat girl
flat girl
4 years ago

honestly speaking i do understand what all these women are going through since i feel the same. i’m a matured woman with no boobs whatsoever and i understand that there’s men out there who likes women like me but i got called a boy so much to the point i don’t feel like a female when i’m looking in the mirror. when i say i’m flat i mean I AM FLATTER than the floor. i think i need to work on self love since no amount of “oh don’t worry you’ll find a men who appreciates you” or “men like small boobs” can make me feel better about myself so to the ones who feel the way i do, sis keep your tiara up because it’s falling

Mad
Mad
4 years ago

As a Woman with a 36G cup who experiences chronic back pain and constant schovansitic comments about the size of my chest, I find it difficult to read that someone doesn’t want to go outside because they have small boobs, I try my hardest to cover myself up and still I’m met with offensive disgusting comments constantly, I’d rather be called Ironing Board than Saggy Tits (My nickname at school) any day

Cam
Cam
4 years ago

I hope I don't offend any of you young ladies with small breasts, but I want all of you to know there are a great number of men that love women with small breast. So, PLEASE, DON'T be ashamed of your small breast. Be proud of them because you know there are a lot more who love the way you look then don't. Just keep looking around and wondering who we are that are staring at your little titties and loving them. Oh, yes. Start going without a bra and ware sexy tops so we can see them better. ?

bill
bill
4 years ago

I am so turn no by small breast. Big breast are a turn off for me. most of all I don't like fake

Lorne
Lorne
4 years ago

Women need to believe that there are many men out there that actually prefere women with small breasts and they are way sexier especially if they have a slim figure

Tim
Tim
4 years ago

Personally I find women with small breasts very attractive. Actually I prefer women with small breast. I thought the small breasted women in this video were all lovely physically and am sorry to see them going to extremes to get bigger when the fact is that they beautiful as they are.

John
John
4 years ago

They are perfect I looooove small breasts
To bad social media has put the wrong image in your head.

bill
bill
4 years ago

once again I am turn on by small breast

Sara
Sara
4 years ago

Could that guy sound anymore like a cuck if he tried?

Sam
Sam
4 years ago

I think small breasts are sexier than large breasts. I'd love a girl friend with small breasts.

billace123123
billace123123
4 years ago

I love small breast and I am sure lots of men feel the same as I do

Chelsea
Chelsea
4 years ago

There are documentaries on large breasts and documentaries on small ones. Why not a documentary on shrinking breasts? I was a D in my late teens as I was very overweight. I am now very slim and an A cup. Bet no one thought of that

AJ
AJ
4 years ago

More than a mouthful is a waste. Small and perky rules.

A.S.
A.S.
5 years ago

I cannot speak for all men, but I prefer breasts that are a "B" or "C" cup.

garry
garry
5 years ago

It is a fallacy the most me like large breasts , there are just as many men that love small, little, tiny breasts. Personally its more about the areola and the nipple. Embrace your beautiful small breasts. It took some time for my wife to understand that i really do love her small breasts and convinced her not to have surgery to which is is now greatful .

Steve
Steve
5 years ago

I like them

Katie
Katie
5 years ago

It is really amusing to see such stupidity and ignorance coming from these women, which in today’s society shouldn’t be a surprise. Having seen the extreme levels these people are willing to indure just evidently fit in to what the media classifys but “perfect” body image is nothing short of ridiculous. The fact is these women obviously lack the factual knowledge to embrace what the have and appreciate their natural image. This is not to say they should brag but also not be embarrassed by having a flat chest. Majority of men actually enjoy small breasted women more. The first woman in this programme using sucking cups did not even have a flat chest to begin with but rather the average size, as she described shyness wearing a bikini is obserd. This lack of confidence is displayed by having an impact of her relationship. Personally speaking, her breasts were as normal sized as they should be at the start. The term “flat chest” refers to having absolutely no boob tissue at all. The women in this, all, have a form a breast tissue and are not therefore classed “flat chested”. My daughter who is currently 13 years old is at the start of puberty and already wants breast implants. Teenage girls are known as “flat chested” they’re at an age which their body hasn’t completely developed, my daughter would wear push up bras or sports bras to ensure the little chest tissue she has got is being positioned to give the impression of more bigger fuller breasts. Although my daughter does gymnastics and this can also be problematic with the tight material and big audience watching. This is where the relation of these three women and my daughter can relate, all four are self conscious about public appearance.

Andy
Andy
5 years ago

I had an old girlfriend who was a 34A, and although her breasts were somewhat bigger than these girls', they were what you would call small and pert, in fact they didn't change shape when she took her bra off!

However, compared to other girlfriends with bigger breasts, hers were the most sensitive of all. I could actually bring her to orgasm by stroking and sucking her nipples.

On another occasion, I had a one night stand with another woman whose breasts were even smaller than these girls, and it didn't in anyway impact the enjoyment.

Chris
Chris
5 years ago

So tired of small chested women feeling so shy or ashamed. Omg, get a clue already!! You ladies still have no idea how many millions of men want, prefer, seek and sexually crave tits from flat chested to an A cup. Nothing is sexier to us than bravely showcasing those classy, clean, sensitive, beautiful small breasts with Confidence. Don't believe me?? Every porn site has a section for flat or small or tiny breasts. There are many sexual web sites designated for tiny tits only. The are porn stars who are famous for their tiny tits. Promise you there are so many that desire you.

Why
Why
5 years ago

I personally have a flat chest, I've had small breasts all my life. I still don't enjoy swimming and wearing bikinis as I'm so flat chested. I've always had to wear sports bras or push up bras. Until last year a reglaur bra didn't even fit me so I didn't wear one I went out with just a top on. Swimsuits are embracing to as the material stretch as around my boobs and makes them stick out smaller. Tight clothes have always been a nightmare. Any suggestions on what I should do with my flat chest

Agurlfrimspace
Agurlfrimspace
5 years ago

I personally have small breasts all my life I didn't know what to do until I seen this video I really don't like swimming or wearing bikinis because I'm so flat chest any suggestions?

This doesn't matter
This doesn't matter
5 years ago

After seeing this I can safely say they are the most flat chested girls, there's teenage girls with bigger ones. How thier partners can be sexual intament is beyond me, how can you have a sexual life if you girl doesn't have anything to squeeze or put your penis through. These girls would look great with a swimsuit on as it the material would stretch around their small bumps.

This doesn't matter
This doesn't matter
5 years ago

When these women want bigger boobs they don't think about the issues that come with it like sore back and they get in the way sometimes, although being slim at their is embracing your sexual confidence suffers it's amazing that they have a flat chest and nothing to squeeze on. How is that girls boyfriend going to have a sexual relation with someone who he can't put his dick through their breasts

Susan
Susan
5 years ago

After watching this program, I feel sad that these women placed so much importance on their breasts! It's in the mind?
Instead focus on the good health you have, if that is your biggest problem, you are very lucky! They are all slim and probably envied by many larger ladies?
I have always had small breasts, they were great for breast feeding my 3 Children, I was married for 23 years! I have since met many men who liked my boobs, it has never been an issue. I would rather meet someone who likes me as I am!
I could never imagine something that wasn't part of me being inside, I feared I would probably want implants removed.
I've tried chicken fillets etc but then thought, who am I doing this for! I am happy with what I have, I would rather be too small than too big! If I had a choice I would have been 1 size bigger but given a choice I would change other bits of my body first?
My only negative is finding pretty bras and tailored clothes that fit nicely!
I play a lot of sports and would not want to wear tight bras to hold everything in, theres no chaffing and less sweat and at 53 they havn't sagged yet!

Peter
Peter
5 years ago

Don't feel ashamed or even think you are not atractive...
Be proud on who you are......

John Majors
John Majors
6 years ago

I was thrilled to see so many positive comments. A sizable majority of men do NOT like large breasts. It is yet another sexualization of women that I would have hoped would have ended 20 years ago. I would be more than happy to have a long term relationship with any of those women, accepting them just as they are. You are beautiful, stay just the way you are.

alastair mann
alastair mann
7 years ago

i absolutely adore a woman with small breasts, they are so adorable, firm , pert and perfectly beautiful to feel in my hand, so ladies be confident, i can assure you that there are lots of us men out there including me would rather have a small breast as supposed to the large, hold your head up high and be proud of what you have

Sue
Sue
7 years ago

I think it is pathetic that women are so influenced by the media. People cannot think for themselves anymore.. One day small breasts will be in fashion and everyone with large ones will panic.. I was never influenced by media; I love my body and am happy with small A cup breasts. Breasts.. they are just breasts people. Men need to stop objectifying women. They are two blobs of fat.. People are so afraid of fat these days, but still want fat on their chests. It doesn't make sense. All the top endurance athletes hardly have breasts and some of them they are gorgeous women. Without saggy, ugly breasts.

Sona
Sona
7 years ago

Well there is study that shows that men who are mentally and financially strong adore small breasts while the less brainers and poor men run for large ones - and that's a given

Bob
Bob
7 years ago

These ladies should live here in America, hormones are in milk. Drink up,

Sue
Sue
7 years ago

What I hate the most is women who show their cleavages in public, wearing low-cut shirts. It is pathetic. I am not a prude, but why is this in style? I am small breasted and have no cleavage. I find the cleavages look like asses, they are ugly to look at and we have to be exposed to this on a daily basis when talking to women because they want to show what they have. It is sad. I never wanted to have large breasts; I don't find them attractive. Can you imagine if men had two blobs of fat stuck to their chests and it would be okay for women objectify men and judge them based on the size of their blobs of fat? There would be a huge outcry from men.

Lindsey
Lindsey
7 years ago

The women in this documentary are gorgeous. Unfortunately all it takes is for one man to say something negative to us about our breast size and we will never forget it. I have size A breasts and have been told by multiple boyfriends that I need plastic surgery. It's great that there are men being nice to us on here, but in the real world, they will only go behind your back and make fun of your breast size to their friends. C'est la vie.

BANTOBACCODRUGNOW
BANTOBACCODRUGNOW
7 years ago

You "lie" on the bed, not lay. Sheesh.

Paulette
Paulette
7 years ago

My breasts developed 2 completely different sizes, including aureoles and nipples when I was 12 ... I already felt like a freak at school ... Was a nightmare in the shower after gym class ... I would give anything to have 2 matching small breasts ... But I'm grateful I haven't lost one or both to breast cancer though ... Funny, never had a guy complain yet ...

Cary
Cary
7 years ago

kind of a little(pardon the pun) about small breasts, I don't like large breasts

john
john
8 years ago

Good morning,I wife has small breast's and I love them I wish women did not feel that to feel like a women you have to have a larger chest,there are so many men who do enjoy more so a smaller chest.My wife is a very attractive women and I no for sure that if she is wearing a top that is more revealing that men take notice and will look as long as possible to see them.Besides sexy is a state of mind not just how you look it is very easy for my wife to drive me crazy .I hope this helps in some way

Aneta
Aneta
8 years ago

Thank you Terrell Prude' Jr. and
Sum Yung Gai. I appreciate your effort a lot.
I have made a somehow good but in the same time bad development of my attitude last week. I met my grandaunt and she told me my grand grandma, my grandma and my other grand died from breastcancer. I am sure to get my breasts removed in my thirties just to make sure I am going to take no risk. The fact that I will definitely lose them in 10-15 years makes me miss them already.

silverdragon234
silverdragon234
8 years ago

I haven't watched it, but this kind of surgery is strictly FORBIDDEN!

Luiz Prado
Luiz Prado
8 years ago

I am a mature man, Brazilian, and I always preferred small breasts. When I was a teenager and in my twenties, everyone in Brazil, or at least in Rio, preferred and admired and found small breasts more beautiful. Vinicius de Moraes, the Brazilian poet of love and admiration for women, author of the lyrics of The Girl From Ipanema, wrote on a poem that the breasts of the beloved woman should fit into her lover hands. Then, came the Americans with their passion for big breasts, maybe as a consequence of eating to much hormones in chicken and meat, perhaps for different cultural reasons. But, most sincerely, small and even very tiny boobs are often times - more than you think - extremely admired and considered very attractive in Brazil.

Charles Maloney
Charles Maloney
8 years ago

Dearest Laura, as a life-long Feminist and International Speech Communications Consultant, your credibility does not arise from your breasts, my dear, but from your already competent capabilities. I've trained thousands of IT people...et all..---mostly men--- who have NO concern about their "sexual components" at all . My wife of 30+ years (whose also Asian-American) has an ultra lovely small B-cup and that's Uber-fine with me...and I'm also very superficial!!! Permit your professional competency arise from your knowledge and back it up with the confident "body language". Trust me: the aforementioned is Critical to people's perception of you. If only I had one hour with you I could change your self-perception forever.
Please...stop this absurd pursuit. Women in their later years who are fortunate to have been blessed with A & B cups look far, far better than those with either natural or implanted breasts. Trust me....I've seen thousands. The hard data reveals that women with larger breasts are perceived as less intellectual and intelligent than those with large "tits." Please trust me on this....scientific proof supports my asseveration.

Dave
Dave
8 years ago

If you want bigger boobs naturally just get pregnant I promise you, they'll grow ;)

Terrell Prude' Jr.
Terrell Prude' Jr.
8 years ago

Sum Yung Gai and I are friends, and he directed me to this. It's true about his wife. Just recently, I started dating a great looker. She's between an A cup and a B cup, too, pretty petite. She's a mega-babe. I can't keep my hands off her, either.

Aneta, let me tell you about those A-cups of yours. You're tall, with hips and nice flowing hair, pretty face, all that, right? You sound just like a woman I dated back when I was in college, but redhead. She was 5' 10", nice hips, nice long legs, nice face, great personality...and a 36A. Not even close to a B, she was firmly in A-cup territory. She even stopped bothering wearing a bra. Like you, she was pretty self-conscious about her "lack of size", too. Well, until she met me. :-)

Well, I lavished those little A-cups of hers as much as I could. I felt her up as much as I could. Yeah, those little A-cups. Why?

Here's why.

1.) She was very feminine and not at all a feminist. She was a very cool chick. SYG lost faith in American gals, and I get why, but there are still a few cool ones, and this chick was definitely one of those. She was also older than I was, so she had more maturity. That was great. Seems I've always dated older women, not trying, just kinda happened that way. Being nice really does count for a lot here, ladies.

2.) Her "little A-cups" had a beautiful shape to 'em. Nice and round, with the cutest little nipples. Perfect champagne cups.

3.) On her, the entire breast was sensitive. Just massaging the mammary glandular tissue got her going big-time. And any attention on either one of her nipples for about 8 minutes, give or take, resulted in a guaranteed "O". This was even when going from totally unaroused. She was as reliable as Ol' Faithful that way, and she could and did have multiple "O's" like this. It was *GREAT* to be able to give her that kind of pleasure just from what we call "second base".

Given all that, how could I *not* pay lots of attention to her there? And like SYG's wife, this woman loved all that attention, too.

Like you, Aneta, she hadn't had any guys pay attention to her "girls" before that. I was the first guy who ever paid anywhere remotely close to that much attention to them. She actually didn't know she was quite that sensitive until she and I started dating. Well, I made up for lost time, and that included feeling her up on a regular basis. Yeah, I checked for bystanders first. It sure made her blush, but she never once stopped me. She came to feel comfortable enough around me that I could actually give her the "O" in movie theatres, in the park, nearly anywhere. Hopefully, wherever she is today, she knows that her 36A chest was--as the old folks used to say--delicious, nutritious, and downright vicious! :-)

She had the potential for sexiness in her the first day I met her. After we got our HIV exams (this is VERY important, folks, don't pass over this step!), as time went on, that sexiness really came out. You know that old saying "lady in public, whore at home"? She *totally* became that as she came out of her shell. That's all it takes, I think, someone who pays attention to all of you and gives you love all over--mind, spirit, and your entire body.

Aneta, like I said, you remind me a lot of this woman I dated. She and I got along great, and had she not lied to me about something really major, I could've possibly married her after graduation.

By the way, personally, I think "lady in public, whore at home" pretty much defines what a "lady" is. Why shouldn't a proper lady *also* be a "whore" at home? I see no reason why she shouldn't.

I hope this helps you. There *are* men out here like me who prefer EXACTLY your type of body. We just don't get talked about much on TV or in magazines, but there are plenty of us out here.

You know who else you sound like? Lindsay "The Bionic Woman" Wagner. See if you can find some of those episodes from the late '70's. I had such a crush on Lindsay Wagner in my late teens...and then I ended up with the redhead version of her.

Here's a tip. When you do get intimate with a guy, ask him to pay attention to your "girls". Tell him sure they're small, but they're really potent. Keep him there for a while till you're desperate "down there", then show him the effect it has on you. Odds are, he'll end up like me with that woman I just told you about.

I wish you all the best, and I hope you find a guy like me, for you. We're out here. But you gotta be open to it.

Sum Yung Gai
Sum Yung Gai
8 years ago

Aneta clearly has not had good fortune in the romance department. Speaking as a man, if she looks as good as she describes herself, then I'd suggest it probably isn't her breast size that puts men off of her, but rather her attitude toward men. I've seen this with many American women especially. "I don't need a man!" has been the rallying cry for a few decades now among my countrywomen, and yes, that tends to put men off. Don't do that.

Physically, I've always been most attracted to more petite women, i. e. A-cups and B-cups. The "big-uns" have never really done it for me. I'll give you all an example, involving my wife.

My wife is a small-ish B-cup. She's one of the most gorgeous, sexy women I've ever met. She's very, very womanly. The difference? She's European and thus, unlike most American women I've met, embraces her femininity. Her attitude is totally different from USA women. She actively likes men (in particular, me), and she didn't hold back in letting me know about her attraction to me; she was very up-front about that. She still doesn't hold back with that. That's a big part of why we've been happily married for about 13 years now.

Like Aneta, my wife's breasts are very sensitive, especially her nipples. She *LOVES* attention on them. Sometimes she can actually achieve "the big O" from just them alone. I can't get enough of 'em (she's grinning now--she's watching me type this). I've been known to spend an hour on them, which she describes as the most wonderful, beautiful torture anyone's ever visited on her (she's nodding her head).

It drives her nearly insane, and she loves it. And I love doing it to her. Why? Because I love her dearly. She's such a wonderful person, in every way. She's my best friend, my confidante, my partner in life, my lover, the person I'd go to Hell and back for if I had to, like in "What Dreams May Come", in order to save her.

(Now she's looking wistfully at me...she just now kissed me. Every word is true, though.)

I'm known to feel up my lovely wife outside of the home (discreetly, of course), and she's told me she adores that I desire her and want her--all of her--as part of my love for her. She loves that I can't get enough of her. Every day at work, I think about her and holding her, cuddling with her, talking with her about the day, sitting down and having dinner with her, and just enjoying her presence in my life. The work day is too long, let me tell you.

How old is this woman? She is now in her 40's. Remember, she's watching me type this. Her suggestion to women like Aneta is to go live in some European country for a little while. Any of them will do, and it's not difficult to arrange this. Learn how to be feminine, and specifically feminine *for men*, and they will beat down your door. It's all about personal attitude. I also remind you that this is a small-ish B-cup woman suggesting this, so consider it.

--SYG

Aneta
Aneta
8 years ago

I think it's easy to say you should like yourself for who you are and embrace what you have been given when you are a B cup or larger or a man. In society small breasts are seen as a huge flaw. men and media tell us all the time that they have to be at least medium sized. look at all the women who are considered sexy and female and beautiful. NONE of them has small breasts. NONE. have you ever seen a meme about a sexy girl who makes men lose their minds because she has small perky nice boobs? don't think so. noone ever says out loud that small boobs are sexy. it's just only not such a big matter and men will STILL accept and love you. but never ever because you have nice and small boobs. at school and later on you get teased by people because everyone agrees on the fact everyone is crazy for large breasts. men love Kate Upton. because of her curvy. body? don't think so. she hasn't got nice curves she hasn't. got a nice booty or even a waist. The only thing she's got are 36 DD breasts. when there's a beautiful woman and she has small boobs, everyone is teasing she looks like a boy and shall invest in a boob job. when you have small boobs people ask you "have you ever considered a boob job"? noone ever would ask that to a 36 C cup. why? Because ppl think it's not necessary.

Men love medium or big boobs. I can not blame them. They look nice and squishy and they're fascinating. I myself are a 34-36 A cup and I suffer from it everyday. All my expartner never complaint but they weren't too excited in bed either. why? Because there's not much to see and feel. I have nice and small nipples and my boobs are perky and round but noone cares because they barely fit in a man's hand. I love men kiss and lick them, they're sensitive as hell and it gets me turned on like nothing else. But men are not really interested in my boobs because I don't have much to offer. A lot of them like them better in a bra and don't even take it off in bed because I think they know they would look smaller without. It makes me sad every hour of the day that I am not what men desires. I have a very pretty face, I am tall, athletic, have a round and full booty and have long blond wavy hair. i am intelligent and a hard working independent funny woman. people say I am beautiful. but am I considered sexy? or womanly? never heard. I even heard a guy in bar saying:" I'd have Sex with you instantly but only from behind because I like them boobs nice and big." that is such an insult. I hear things like that all the time. people think it's okay to call you too small breasted and feel sorry for you because you still look nice. But it hurts feelings. I am considering a therapy. because whenever I look in the mirror I feel left behind. I have three sisters. One has a 36B cup, one a 36C cup and one a 36 DD cup. guess what? they're making fun of my boobs whenever the topic of a woman's body comes up.

They say things like "at least.theyre perky. better than nothing. " and "god hasn't been fair to you and he forgot you. We're really grateful and lucky not to be you." I would be, too.

How on earth can you believe that anyone thinks you are hot and men like your boobs when you have small breasts? seriously, how? i hate my body because of my small boobs. i am not considering implants because they look and feel ridiculous and i don't want to lose sensitivity. but i wish for bigger boobs and hate mine every hour of my life. For 10 years now.

Don't blame the women for being insecure and not satisfied with their small boobs. It's a thing no one would want to have. I pray for a man who just doesn't like breasts. I've. never met any.

Renee
Renee
9 years ago

it is not only the small breasted female that needs to learn to love herself. Society needs an attitude adjustment. The torment starts in school when the other kids notice the under-developed girls and teases and taunts them. It destroyed my teen years. And that totally messed up my life. Love myself or not... the comments, the judgements and ill fitting clothes make me not want to leave the house... and I am 42 now.