My Penis And Everyone Else’s

Funny and revealing. Penis surgery seems a bit sad and extreme. Men need to understand that it is a two way street, some women just have too much “space” to cover. Shop around and you will find a good fit.

This is an absolutely brilliant documentary. He takes a serious subject and carries it off with true expertise. Bravo! It is truly informative and revealing and, of course, eminently entertaining. If it does nothing else, it should achieve the film-maker’s goal — of getting people talking. The bottom line: As entertaining as it is, it’s certainly is critically important. Heart congrats to the film-maker.

What a funny documentary! I’m glad the funny guy has found peace with his little fella and its size (or lack thereof). Good for him!

I’ve been told the little fellas grow more proportionately than the big ones. I’ve read that 4 inches is good enough, but ya need to know how to use them.

Such a funny trivia note: In China, (you wouldn’t believe it for the size of the population), fertility doctors are working night and day with “childless couples” and right away they “measure” the penis to see if it’s long enough to break the hymen in his wife–no joke. If so, then they “interview” to see if they are penetrating deeply (one couple was kissing only). With such strict birth control measures, many couples just don’t know what to do now. Now that would be embarrassing!

Graham, you are so right. Good call! We joke about it because it is a very sensitive topic. I’m average for a white guy (or slightly less), but I live in Asia (lucky me) — more than enough here. My wife didn’t know they “grew” when we first got married and she was very disappointed at first sight (she wondered if she could ever get pregnant with “that think”) until “surprise!” Just that initial disappointment on our honeymoon was rough on me psychologically, despite sebsequent complaints the other way now (it still is painful sometimes to make love). It took a long time to get over that initial worry about being “insificient” even though I mentally knew it wasn’t so, and based on my darling wife’s truly “innocent” understanding of things at the time.

I know too much information, but heck, the guys on this doc. are actually showing off thier pictures! I suppose I can be real for an annonomous comment.

It still bothers me when she laughs about the honeymoon “first sight” and it would have been devistating for me if she had continued doing that past that one time. I DO understand what you’re saying, Graham. She doesn’t understand why I don’t like to talk about it much and think it’s as funny as she does. Way to get past the jokes and bring up a good point.

Hehe good on you Charles I’m with you I’m average too and the psychological damage it did to me with the current girlfriend I’m dating was devastating.. I constantly thought she was lying to me whenever she would say that I was big enough for her and would obsessively search the Internet for answers about what’s normal. I now know I have an average sized penis and it’s plenty to work with. Sure I wish I was bigger and the media tells us we need to be bigger but you have to learn to live with what you got. I even considered surgery but decided that would be way too risky on my manhood (nobody’s going anywhere near it with a scalpel).

wtf you can’t make judgements on size when it’s not erect. The size can completely change.

Charles- Wow you should really let your wife know how upsetting it can be for her to keep demoralizing you like that! It doesn’t sound nice of her to keep saying things like that to you. As for it being such a sensitive topic, it’s the fact that men don’t have outlets to voice their concerns or ask questions, like stated in the documentary. In fact in some ways the age of the Internet has made this worse due to the fact that with anonymity comes ignorance and abuse, along with porn making what we regard as the proper male size to be a good 3-4 inches longer than what’s normal. Hopefully some day all these issues will be addressed in a wide scale fashion!

Good documentary, but if Lawrence made this documentary to prove that penis size doesn’t matter, he failed GREATLY.

Basically the women participating in this documentary are telling it like it is. And men probably shouldn’t watch this documentary. Size DOES matter, and most women, if not all, prefer a big cock. If you have a 7 inch cock or bigger most women will find it to be big enough. If it’s smaller than that she will be disappointed.

Women have become more shallow and critical than men. They reject/mock/ridicule men because of their penis size and they sit and talk about it with their friends. Even if you’re their boyfriend or husband she will tell all her friends about your penis. Women just don’t respect men anymore. Sad, but true.
I’ve stopped dating because women are so shallow and critical – even those women who are ugly and have thousands of flaws themselves. There’s no way that I can live up to all those things that women expect.

@Achems Razor:

“You should not be that disappointed with women, treat them with respect and they will treat you as such, and drop that “ugly” shit! all women are beautiful!”.

I do treat women with respect, but because I’m short (and ugly) it only gets me friendships. Women don’t want a short guy, no matter how fantastic his personality is.

Besides that, women constantly criticize and judge men, so why can’t I/we do the same?
I’m tired of people/women expecting/demanding men to accept the way they were created, while at the same time women can’t accept men and their “flaws”.

“Learn some techniques for C…..sakes! If you do not know how to make a women happy buy some learning videos, for a women it is not a “wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am” thing. There are many ways to be a Don Juan. and if you do it right, they will even forget you have a penis.
A lot of guys will know what I am talking about.
Probably a lot of women too.”

I’m a virgin. But even if I did learn some good techniques to pleasure a woman, it will only be a matter of time before she gets bored and starts thinking; “Imagine if his cock was big. The sex would be even better! Why am I wasting my time with a small/average cock, when I can get a big one?”. I know this because I talk to women.

You should go and read some of the posts that women write on different discussion boards/forums. You would be surprised on how shallow and critical women are when it comes to us men and our bodies.
Even in this documentary we get a good example of how shallow women are.
Try watching these video clips too:

http://www.vimeo.com/4513411

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o-wEeYXiNUY

They’re from the ‘Extreme Male Beauty’ documentaries that were shown on Channel 4 in May. You can probably download the full episodes somewhere.

John G.

Thanks for the funny videos. You seem like you are down on yourself.
That in itself will never find you a woman, they will feel your vibrations. I would like to help, but I am not a counselor of any sort, especially a sex counselor.

The truth is no men can, or ever will, understand women, us men like to think we do, but that is a non sequitur. I know women understand a lot of money. If you had that, problem resolved. I no doubt will have repercussions on saying that (LOL)

Is there any women reading this that can offer John G. some advice?

If all else fails, my advice is to go and see a sex counselor.

John G. It’s ok to be a virgin now; if and when you get married, that’s a plus for many women. My wife is the one and only woman I’ve made ever made love to, and I like it that way and she does too.

I remember my honeymoon, and my mistake was not wanting her to be scared of the size (her premarital biggest fear) so the first thing she saw was the tiny weeny (pun intended ) stage. I should have stiffened it up a bit first. Almost 7 inches is good enough. Don’t worry about it until you’re ready. I suspect that bigger penises are more difficult to make them hard than smaller ones that grow more proportionately (I read that somewhere). Find a woman that will love you for who you are and the cock in your pants is a plus along side a happy life in other ways.

Heck, once you have kids; sex is really hard to schedule, IF you’re not tire, and IF she’s not tired, and IF you have time and IF you can keep it up; anyway . . . you get the picture. Make your life and your marriage good in other ways, and then the sex will be better when it’s time.

My pastor friend told me to “Do everything for her pleasure and along the way, you enjoy it too.” It’s good advice. You can be selfish sometimes, but not always if you want to keep your wife happy.

Oh, I almost forgot to say something religious! LOL! The Bible tells us that our body is not our own; the man’s body belongs to his wife and her body is yours–don’t use them selfishly with sex and you’ll not only be happy, but will be honoring also to God.

I am rather large and have had experiences where I can’t have sex with the girl because my penis is too big, or it is uncomfortable for them. I have had a relationship with a girl who found it too big for her and we ended the relationship even though we were in love. Can’t have a good relationship without good sex. On the other hand you will never have that problem if you are small. So the grass isnt always greener on the other side.

Destro: No, don’t have surgery (if you’re even a little bit normal). If it’s possible to have sex, then find someone that can take it and adjust. You might be able to have “thigh sex” if you’re that big, and do oral sex for her. Anyway, surgery should be the last option. I would like to think there are “options” if there is true love there. As far as I know there aren’t any Biblical prohibitions for any positions and “options” that I can find; just be polite and not demanding with your wife when the time comes.

“John G. It’s ok to be a virgin now; if and when you get married, that’s a plus for many women. My wife is the one and only woman I’ve made ever made love to, and I like it that way and she does too”.

What?! Sorry but I just don’t believe that. You got lucky and found a woman who would accept it, but most women HATE male virgins. They all want somebody who’s experienced. I haven’t heard any women say that they want their next boyfriend to be a virgin.

“I remember my honeymoon, and my mistake was not wanting her to be scared of the size (her premarital biggest fear) so the first thing she saw was the tiny weeny (pun intended ) stage. I should have stiffened it up a bit first. Almost 7 inches is good enough. Don’t worry about it until you’re ready. I suspect that bigger penises are more difficult to make them hard than smaller ones that grow more proportionately (I read that somewhere). Find a woman that will love you for who you are and the cock in your pants is a plus along side a happy life in other ways.
Heck, once you have kids; sex is really hard to schedule, IF you’re not tire, and IF she’s not tired, and IF you have time and IF you can keep it up; anyway . . . you get the picture. Make your life and your marriage good in other ways, and then the sex will be better when it’s time”.

I’m not 7 inches. Not at all. I’m barely around 5.5 inches and to most women it’s just not big enough. It’s one of the reasons why I’ve stopped dating and why I try to stay away from women.
You don’t how extremely shallow and critical women are when it comes to men and our bodies. If you were my age, you would understand.

John G., Dude yeah there are a ton of women who view men in the way you describe, but there are also a ton of women who are the exact opposite. I think you’ve just been unlucky and finding all the stupid shallow women in your life. Giving up is the WRONG thing to do, because then you’re just eliminating the possibility of finding someone who’s caring and understanding completely. Keep fishing. It may take a while but you just gotta keep at it.

People this documentary was very educational and should have awoken some peoples’ minds. The idea’s of love and respect are flawed in the human conscience. Think, why would a stranger care about your problem’s in the first place (relationship wise). A man’s penis size means everything to a woman. are we forgetting about female orgasms for goodness sakes or the size of female dildo’s. The only reason anyone seems to stay with someone is usually out of desperation in the long run. For example give a woman or man a chance to be with the perfect human specimen they will most likely go for them than anyone else if it were possible. A woman will be ridiculed because of her body. A man over his wealth and penis. When one meets someone who says their okay with their flaws doesn’t always mean it. They really mean they don’t care and will settle for you for the time being. If my statements seem harsh then look up “Real Dolls” on “YouTube” find this 50 minute documentary about men living with these sex toys. Watching those videos gave me insight on human relationships. The best example of what I’m writing about, how the relationships between most males and females in a compromising relationship is false is simply tested by, ” give a man 10 million dollars and give a woman the same and see where their life goes”. If anyone says they would not cheat on their lover and/or break up and find someone else they are lying. I would say 80 percent of married couples around the world, if given this opportunity would do either of the two. Oh Yeah!!! It does count if cheat on your partner without them knowing. With the rise of STD’s like: herpes, HIV, warts, AIDS, etc., I thought people wouldn’t care about stupid thing like looks, penis size, bank accounts (money), and “coolness”. Just in case anyone is wondering I’m a 23 year old virgin. Why am I still a virgin?? a little thing called dignity, right partner (personality not stupid crap like boob size, butt width, or supermodel status), and (oh yeah people who believe in marriage) adultery with a side of no pre-marital sex. My parent want me to just go to town with some girl ( if you know what I mean XxX). I can’t do it and guys with small penis’s do me a favor, go marry a Japanese woman or something. I wish the world consisted of more loving people ,but since it don’t fellow lovers of mankind find a way to deal with the problems that negative people bring. I know many a nerd ( female or male) A.K.A positive majority, have had to deal with scumbags and hohohosss!!!!! To whom ever has come out of such relationships without STDs please thank “something”. To does who have received great misfortune from such Aye!! Wipesss!!! I beg you don’t blame anyone but that person who gave you a STD, taken half your stuff, or worse than that. Free will can be so beautiful when used right and so horrifying when used wrong.

Andy (With respect in mind if you are older than me) “Too much pessimism”, I know since I’m a virgin you think I haven’t been in a relationship since you mentioned me being one like that matters and I’m not thinking or writing pessimistically. On age however you have a point about me being too young. First I been with many girls (about 35) and “tried” to date them without involving sex my first date was about when I was 17 years old. My longest relationship with a girl last a year just recently she broke up with me because I wouldn’t have intercourse with her ( I like to wait until 5 years then I decide if I’m ready to trust her). When I decide to date a girl I let them know that I’m looking for a wife not pre-marital sex. I tell them we aren’t going to have sex anytime soon and that if they are serious about loving me and starting a family be patient. I told All the other girls, the same thing and some girls even cheated on me right in my own dorm and parents house Andy sir. Used a camera on their dumbass’s to find out. Some girls even thought they could tempt me to have sex with them like a relationship is some game, by walking around nude at my parents house. Others told me I didn’t love them because I wouldn’t touch them inappropriately, I guess my hugs and kisses weren’t enough. A girlfriend of mine said she would leave me if I didn’t “do her” That relationship went down the drain from there. Now okay to summarize my first comment if no one else understood it as well. A man’s penis length is as important to woman as a woman’s looks are to a man. Wealth and fame also contribute to relationships as well. Why do the vast majority of actors and rich people only date someone else who is rich or famous. I also state the reason why I’m so patient to have sex is because of STDs, Premarital sex, and “Adultery”. Religiously speaking there is no divorce well unless your wife commits adultery which is having sex with another man. If I have sex Andy, what I’m trying to say is that once I enter this woman it’s “til death do we part”. If she ever cheats on me or die I will not remarry okay because there is no “real divorce” If I had sex with someone else it would technically be adultery and if I have sex with her again I could get a STD. Dumbass judges and these man-made laws I’m talking spiritually marriage like Adam and Eve okay. I also believe whoever you lose your virginity to(first chosen lover, not rape idiots) is your husband. Now my statement on people getting together out “desperation” or lack of options is real. When a woman is single and in her 50’s or older they tend to accept a lover no matter what their status as a person lies, so they won’t grow old alone. For men when there penis is small or they are broke, or due to some other misfortune they too will settle for what they can get. If anyone thinks this is a lie fine okay ask yourself would you marry someone poor and “ugly” if you had to over someone rich and “beautiful”. I think the best and most loyal wife would be someone homeless or from a poor country who respects good fortune and doesn’t take it for granted. I would think another option for a great long lasting relationship would be to marry the girl who is considered a nerd or geek. Finally Andy since you commented on my first comment tell me about your past relationships because I hope you are a married man with a wife that was your first love. If not I still would like to hear you or anyone’s relationship stats (one night stands=, gay relationships=, married=, divorced=, girlfriends/boyfriends=, cheated on someone=, Someone cheated on you=, etc). Since my last comment seemed Pessimistic fine is War, STDs, child rape, suicide bombing, hate, racism, teen pregnancy, deadly disease, hunger, murderers, gangsters, domestic violence, prostitution, and whatever other bullshit that exists in society Pessimism. I think not. What’s bad is bad is as what’s good is good. If your wife gives you HIV after 2o years of marriage I guess “my glass half full”

Graham”!!! Okay now I’m getting pissed off. What do you mean I’m going to have a “sad little life” if I keep “thinking ” the way I do. First off fine I get it everyone isn’t a religious person. My views on virginity until marriage means nothing to some okay I get that. Yet however it doesn’t take a man of faith to understand that STDs are not a joke. I see that some people are what I call gullible and naive. I not going to type adultery anymore it has no meaning to some. In its place I will use words like “Cheater”, “affair”, and “Infidelity”.

I think people don’t understand what love really is. It is being confused with sex and/or a (need/want). I didn’t have sex with any of my 35 girlfriends to prove just that. Why did they feel the need to abandon a relationship with me because I’m an abstinent virgin. I thought chicks liked guys who weren’t all about sex, sex, sex, sex!!! What is that a lie or did they want to have sex because they knew I was a virgin and just wanted that to take my virginity!!! I made two comments on this article in hopes that someone would understand my views which are real. Fine if I’m a liar about relationships being about nothing more than “when I’m I going to get laid again”, stop having sex for 3 years with your girlfriend or wife and see what the hell happens. I didn’t say boyfriends or husbands because ladies you know “they can’t live without it”. This is a man’s challenge.

I have seen and heard too many of my friends (both sexes), fight over wanting sex or they would end the relationship. This leads to teen pregnancy, father less children, and single women who don’t stand a half the chance of securing a husband as a single woman does. After reading this much I hope I have gotten through to someone. Anyway so when I tell girls I like (based on personality, hobbies, likes, miss, etc) that I’m not ready to have sex yet, it’s like I’m a joke. I am “Serious Ladies”. I love people. I do to others what I want done to myself, (Karma, what comes around goes around). “I will live a sad life,” Yeah your right if I was a complete dumbass to allow some girl to cheat on me all because I don’t want to be patient to see her true personality. People wear masks okay, everyone isn’t like me humble and nice.

I enjoy helping my neighbors. Talking to my loving parents. Playing video games. helping the less fortunate. Having fun with my siblings. To those who read my other two comment look I never said I hated people. People hate me. You know lowlife assholes who take pleasure in others misery. I don’t enjoy hurting others. That’s also why I take relationships slow ( 5 years of time together or sex no go). To those who are married I’d advise you to always be cautious to your lovers behavior because being cheated on while married is one of my greatest concerns. People with STDs shouldn’t try to have kids because there child will be born unjust. Getting a STD is like game over for your bloodline. If no one cares about this then “the children are the future” is not a concept you care about. I stay so determined to remain a virgin because of this as well. having sex with untrustworthy people is suicide for your future.

If anyone still has a problem with my views then it’s okay, I give up. Here’s one, who are paying prostitutes? Married men and guess what who could find out about this action what the show “Cheaters”. You or your lover could have an affair at any given moment. As you or them get older the chances of being cheated on increases.Even old men go to prostitutes okay so don’t say ohhh nooo!! Reason: bored of them/you or their secret lover appreciates them more, sex drive, older looking, even money can be a relationship breaker. That’s why waiting 5 years means nothing to me. To meet a girl I could grow old with and make love to for years to come would be worth the time spent not havind sex, finding or testing her. I know however even if I meet this girl who would be with me for 5 years with no sex, she could still end up cheating on me later, but whatever I had a better chance with her than someone who couldn’t wait a week. Some of you don’t like what I say because it’s true or you don’t want to face reality because you are in love. Remember “Love” isn’t equal someone approached someone first. You may love her so much while she only likes you, or vice versa. Having kids does not stop this from happening okay if it did then why are there so many kids living with divorced parents look at statistics. my point about people using each other lies in this fact. During this “World Recession” married couples divorce rate has lowered. Why???? If you can’t get a job might as well stay with the person you don’t like anymore it’s better than being hungry. Fact

Achems Razor watch this YouTube video and never talk to me about him again or his movie dude “Kinsey’s doomed”. youtube.com/watch?v=9_x9fhfBj6Y&feature=related Watch part two of this video as well Jackass. A movie? Look man read a bible if you want some real insight okay and stop listening to people you don’t know shit about and sure as hell can’t trust. Wait you cannot trust religion? But you can trust some dumbass loser who was seriously “flawed in character”. Wait okay, you can believe in a movie? It was made for people “who aren’t so nice” to feel better about being pedophiles, rapists, beastiality, or (other forms of sexually disturbed people), but not my words a youth who has pride and honor in a age were it seems to have gone down the drain with many others (NOT ALL PEOPLE BUT HELL OF ALOT).

Achems Razor thank you however for pointing out my first statement however about love being fake among many people in society. It’s just a system of “use and deceit”. I won’t be a part of fellow males with crazy sex urges. I will prove to the women I meet that I genuinely want to love them and not just “make love” to them. If 5 stupid years is too much for them than obviously they want the guy who makes love with them and then goes watch football afterwards. I’m the romantic type of guy who loves staring into the eyes of the one I love. Making her laugh and happy will be my full time passion. I will never cheat on her for another girl just because “she made me an offer I couldn’t refuse”.

Parental love and even sibling love consists of no sexual contact yet the love in the atmosphere is real. I’m 23 still living with my parents “Happily” might I add. I also enjoy spending time with older and younger siblings and sharing a real bond with people. Not just stupid sex. I think not having sex with a girl should prove to her what type of man I am. Achems Razor: “You should have sex at least on the third date, to see if you are compatible. If anything else”. Look man you know you are a “Playboy” how many girls did you “hit in the back set of your car”. What the hell does a date have to do with anything in my position (no pre-marital sex man!!!!). Compatibility will not be my problem okay because sex doesn’t matter to me, however for her though I though size didn’t matter. Anyone can become a better lover I thought with practice??? Yeah so are you admitting that size does matter to women because I said so from the get go. I want “LOVE” only, the feeling you have for loved ones. When both you and your lover are in there 60’s or 80’s what are you going to do secretly cheat on her because you’re not “Compatible” anymore. Get out of here.

If my wife passed away suddenly I wouldn’t ever touch another woman because “I LOVE HER”. Not I Loved the sex with her. When your parents pass away are you going to go find another Dad or Mom I hope not assholes because it would only “hurt them from the great beyond”. I am extremely paranoid people if you don’t know think, why I’m I a Virgin and still single (girl dump me just recently because I would do her during the upcoming holiday’s or even on New Years). If some comments on me being a virgin again like “wow sex will save the world” then you must not be paying attention to my methods of securing a wife. Also people if sex is as important to women why the hell do they keep talking about it like it’s some chore. Why do they complain about sex addicted men and say no to you all the time. I still think someday a woman will see what type of guy I am and except it. I’m becoming more afraid that all relationships with strangers of the opposite sex (men to women, women to men) can only be base on sex.

Last yes “Achems” please read a bible you will hear something about pre-martial sex being a sin. Also having sex with many different people is one as well or cheating on your wife (Infidelity Adultery Cheating). Man you got luck okay finding a woman who married you on your first attempt(you Virgin lovers). Again for those who aren’t religious believers “Atheists” this does not concern you “OK”. My beliefs prohibit me from doing many negative things so this sex until marriage is just one of my many beliefs. I cannot waver because I want to llisten to “rightous words”. Achems Razor, you have two grown daughters if they are older than me, “shut the hell up SIR” (NO OFFENSE). You are a LUCKY bastard and pay attention “Player” while you up there commenting about smoothe talking women (deceit). If I’m old enough to be your son you and I are from a different “ERA”, what the hell in the early 80’s and 90’s AIDS wasn’t even around like now dude. I would have loved being “my age” at that time. You better kiss your wife’s sweat ass every day man I’m not playing you better be totally grateful!!!! Don’t ever cheat on her even if she said no for 20 years to sex. I read your comments on this site early on so yeah!!!! (Charles B.) kiss your wife’s ass as well and not just for sex!!!! Wait Achemes is any of your two daughter’s available (asking if 20 or older). You Two lucky bastards

Okay I give up, so you would be okay with your little girls doing it with many guys just to “find one” I cannot accept that coming from a man with daughters. I hope they found a man like you found your wife(first try). Wait so it would be torture for a woman not to have sex with a man for that long wow. I guess masturbation on behalf of the women must not be considered an alternative. Look patience is a virtue that must be used why can’t people see that the easy way (laying in bed with countless women) is not always the best. Look being religious and typing what people call “swear words” means nothing. Look English was not the original language of man. Latin is considered the language of god so calm down (bad words would be in that form or spelling not current English). Actions speak louder than words anyway man. When will people figure this out. Like saying “I love you” to get in a girls pants isn’t always said with truth. Here’s an example of lying and just me being harsh. I wish you a happy life (do you believe me?). Some guy who dates a girl goes to prison for life for shooting her in the face with a shoot gun; He Says “I’m sorry I did that” (Do you believe him?). Just because I said harsh words doesn’t mean I hate you either(older dude). I’m just a bit angry and cannot believe no one is really concerned about STDs or anything else even. I’m upset that in today’s society (2009) girls (highschool freshman even) are opening their legs easily and guys (man 8 years and older) are unzipping their pants so easily. So yeah don’t take my harsh “typing” so seriously I’m just trying to get some emotion across on my “dull” comments. If I said positive things like “I love” or “good grief” “holy moley” you wouldn’t even care. Notice how you commented on the words people view as negative. People do take positive things for granted (like loving parents). Again though I really do care about you and want only the best for you and your family Achems Razor

(I do on to others that I want done to myself.)

(Hope I didn’t hurt your feelings. the words had to be used though Kinsey was a “jackass”. Cannot believe you told me to listen to anything that had to do with that sick minded individual. you want me to tell you to listen to “Pointy Horn SAM” I would hope not.)

(Not type on to others what I want typed back, No Sin for typing my friend “voice is spirit” not letters. I’m not scary because I wouldn’t hurt anyone in fact I would let you harm me without harming you. Peace)

Wow, I didn’t realize guys had body image problems like this. The size, is never the right size, I guess. Your comments to each other are even more surprising. What feels good doesn’t always look good!

I think, the females in this video were playing a little bit of a sick joke on you guys.

Lets face it, there is only so much distance from the bottom of a woman to the top of her womb, after that having something ’smashed’ into you just hurts. A bigger dick allows for some feelings you can’t achieve with a small dick, but overall, most of our nerves are at the bottom. Hense, size doesn’t make it or break it.

By the way, guys who watch porn suck in bed. There is more to making love than 3 positions and cum in your face.

Sex is best when there is definite attraction, chemistry, and a good body fit. Not to mention a caring connection between two people that involves trust, respect, honesty, some sacrifice, humor, and bonding which happens when people communicate and do things togethet. IKA:Love

If guys drove us like their precious cars more women would be happy. If you don’t get the analogy, suffice to say, don’t skip gears.

Try having your parts visible to everyone. I can’t tell you how many people attack me for my breast size, and I have perfect porportions. Men and women alike. Even strangers. Women are expected to be double D’s or they don’t measure up!it is more valued than brains, and people go out of their way to make sure you know it. Plus images of breasts and striper scenes are constantly shoved in our face. Do you know how many women I know who won’t show their body’s to their own husband or have stopped having sex with them because they have been made to feel inadequate. LOTS.

Guys seem to think that they are more visual than women. Who ever thought up this myth must have been a guy, because attraction and looks matter to women as well. In general, guys are ugly, but what is worse is being nasty. Short and bald is not that big of a deal. The thing is we set looks aside to look for someone who well be caring and treat us well and take care of us when we are in the child rearing stage and most vulnerable. If you haven’t noticed it is still a man’s world; we get paid very little for the work we do and housewives don’t get anything. So many women and children are going hungry because the males are not taking care of their baby moms. Guys tip waitresses and prostitutes more than they give their own women. Every women wants to be with someone who well protect her and provide for her and her children and love her and only her. Guys would be well served to be healthy, fit, groomed, clean, and polite, use your manners. Basically, cow boy up. We don’t like a relationship to be a competition, we are not males, don’t look at us like that, it is not how we think.

Oh and by the way, the customary waiting period is 90 days. But that doesn’t mean that you guys are supposed to be out screwing other women during that time period, or a series of people every 91 days or so. And buddy, there is no way, I would wait 5 years for you or anybody else, no matter what you had going on, and this discipline well not guarantee you success in a relationship. You have serious trust, abandonment issues. People get divorced, cheat, or are unhappy for a variety of reasons. Everyone wants to be loved but only a few know how to love or accept love from another.

On a side note, women don’t talk to each other about their vagina’s either but if they did I would tell them to do a little bit more swimming pool maintenance because some of them scare me at the swimming pool. Makes me wonder if you guys pack machetes with your condoms in your back pocket. Ha Ha.

And guys, wash your hands more. And wash under your skin if you are not circumcised. STD’s are real. Women talk about this too! Play safe.

I see that in today’s society abstinence is considered a “sin” by many people. It is pure “evil” in the eyes of many. No one has cancelled my point about love, in fact Karen you have yet again proven, like many others that I have talked to or “tried” to dated, that there is no love between strangers of the opposite sex, just using: paying bills, sex, (single parent)child raising, a cook, money (spending). I cannot believe some of you think only 1-9 months is enough time to form a solid relationship. Look if you cannot wait 3-5 years or so for sex then obviously you have a greater possibility of cheating on your spouse than anything else okay. Karen you state that there is reasons behind divorce or cheating. The only reason I would consider filing for a divorce is if something is mentally wrong with your lover (abusive, a cheater, psycho). I wouldn’t divorce or cheat over dumb stuff like money, lack of sex, looks, boredom, kids (yes kids do increase the chance of divorce A.K.A infidelity).

I’m really getting so depressed because it seems no one even knows what love is . You Karen mentioned a lot of ideas behind love but it’s not love. “Sex is best when there is definite attraction, chemistry, and a good body fit. Not to mention a caring connection between two people that involves trust, respect, honesty, some sacrifice, humor, and bonding which happens when people communicate and do things together. IKA: Love”. Karen are you trying to tell me you can’t trust the guy who can wait 5 years without using you for sex, actually wants to form a real bond with you, and obviously will not leave you no matter what? I think I’m definitely going to have to marry a homeless woman, a chick from a poor country, or maybe one with a disability. I say so because how much do you want to bet they won’t cheat on me and could honestly last a measly 5 years before having sex. I see that the majority of women who are “fortunate” have different views on what they really want. It’s not the nice guy who would swim in lava to save you. It’s the dude who sleeps with countless women then say ” I Love You” Then 30 minutes later be with two prostitutes at the hotel. Lie if you want, but deep down I see I’m right.

“And buddy, there is no way, I would wait 5 years for you or anybody else, no matter what you had going on, and this discipline well not guarantee you success in a relationship. You have serious trust, abandonment issues. People get divorced, cheat, or are unhappy for a variety of reasons. Everyone wants to be loved but only a few know how to love or accept love from another”. Karen look I don’t know what you think you know about me, but you are half wrong. I would never leave or hate, divorce my Wife no matter what. What you think I would get bored or something?? Hell I wouldn’t leave her even if she did cheat on me (if there were no STDs). I have honor, determination, and Love for everyone. Karen If you mean my wife will cheat on me for some reason then you are right which is why I want someone I could possibly trust like (75% if she stayed for those solid 5 years). I don’t judge people I state facts Tiger Woods is on the “cheaters list”. Accept what love from others? How can you accept something that in so false in so many people like Tiger Woods and Magic Johnson. Isn’t sex and/or “Lust” all people think about. Love is a feeling that is created not just ” POOF!! I LOVE That Girl”. Love at first sight or “sex” proves my statement about lust not love.

I have seen countless single moms become so simple because of the dumb “pill or condom” theory. Safe sex is planned sex not “I’m in heat and need extinguishing” or “The moment is right ‘Let’s Get It On’ “. I see patience is truly lost among the majority. http://youtube.com/watch?v=Y3PA1×8JJkY – watch this video people to view what I mean about people who care not for others , ( I guess waiting 5 years on this guy was a bad idea wooohhh!!!!!!!). I need anyone who’s reading my comments to understand something. The world does not consist of a great number of honest nice people. Say what you will about yourself, we need to worry about our neighbors and our own safety. Jealousy and Envy, Vanity and Obesity, Hate and Fear are all things that need to be discarded in our minds. We need to come together help one another not destroy. Know, even though I feel this way I still believe no one will follow it since I’m too idealistic. Humanity and Animals has shown that love between family is caused by a need to prolong our DNA or existence. I want to help prolong everyone’s existence because I just want to “FREE WILL” use it people for POSITIVE outcomes not negative ones. If I sound like a liar it’s because no one wants to face facts. I bet you would believe me if I told you I was a some sex addicted fool running around sleeping with 1000 chicks because I’m horny and bored!!!!!

“Sure, many people marry out of desperation but this doesn’t mean that they will be unhappy and that they won’t love each other eventually. Staying with someone is complicated and takes hard work. Also, you must be made out of stone to make a lady wait 5 years for a little action. Damn!” Andy if you don’t want to comment please don’t but I do have something to say about this statement you made. If you win the lottery or out of money these desperation relationships don’t last . If This person who doesn’t actually love you ( however is using you for something ) could replace you then they will or would. Desperation relationships doesn’t last long okay maybe 5 or 10 years but not long ( 50-or more years). Man so you mean someone marries a single mom with 10 kids and “stays with her for sex ” (desperation) this relationship is going to last? NO!!!! Look I’m not into anything like such a relationships. I want to find someone who feels love for me as I do her. People aren’t that easy anyway, a “desperation relationship” will obviously fail because there is no determination in such a connection. In fact if a person comes along and shows interest I bet they won’t refuse it so they will cheat on their lover in the long run. Relationships that last are the ones I am trying to build think, if I stay with you for 5 years without “whining” for sex I must be more trustworthy than the dudes who can’t go a day, week, month, hour, or year. Ladies just remember there are a lot of “playboys” and you all seem to love them. A man who “smooth” talks is just a liar in the end.

“If guys drove us like their precious cars, more women would be happy.” Karen do you view yourself as a object because this was the worst analogy for this topic. I would have said, “If guys took care of us like their mothers (or kids)”. That statement would work for you if you were talking about “Love”. For sex this would have worked better, “If guys moved like a calm ocean women would be more happy”.

Life Observer, it seems like you’ve prejudged everyone who’s not a virgin. Most of us who have had sex are not players and are not lying and manipulating our way into women’s pants. There are a lot of things in between virgin and manwhore. Those are not the only two options. Some people actually do only have sex with people they love; it just happens that they love more than one person during their lifetime.

Life Observer: Or, I could just follow your instructions and type in the key words. LOL! Thanks.`

This documentary is revealaing. All the women said that size matters. The women in the street and in the sculpture studio in England, and the 2 nurses and the interviewee in America. They can't all be coordinating to play a sick joke on men. This says something about women's attitude towards size…

Although I knew that some men felt that the size of their penises defined them, it was interesting to see to what depth.

I’ve been here and there with big and small. In my younger years (I’m in my early 30s now) size DID matter but as I’ve gotten older, there are better, more important things to focus on.
My current boyfriend is probably one of the smallest guys I have been with but there are other things he can do. I’m not shallow enough to love him for just his penis. He’s not the most attractive and he definitely isn’t wealthy but he’s extremely smart, kinda, and caring.

It makes me sad to see other people give up on dating…just as it was mentioned before, there is someone out there for you. There are a lot of fish in the sea.

Life Observer, it’s best to date someone with your beliefs and values so that you’re not set up for disappointment. I feel there is more going on in your life than just relationships with women. You’re still young and have lots ahead of you. I hope the best for you.

Great comments, everyone. I enjoyed reading them.

To John G and all the men that assume that all women openly discuss their sex life and their mans penis with other women, your wrong. Not all women are inclined to openly share and discuss their sexual experiences. Some may be inconsiderate and share intimate details that you guys may not want us to share, just as some men discuss unappreciated details about us women. It goes both ways. As for myself and many women that I know, I keep it quiet and if there is discussion, the details are minimal. It is out of respect for those that I care to share myself with and i have hopes that they would have the same respect for me. To be respected you must respect others. Everyone is different, don’t clump us all in the same labelled box because we share similar body parts,

@Life Observer,
I’m gonna give my 2 cents here and say that to some extent I do agree with what you’re saying (not everything since I do not believe in the Bible and I do not like to prejudge someone based one just one aspect).

However, while you have the right to your opinion and views, would you for the love of God try summarizing things next time? I’m sure you love discussing this topic but please try to be a bit precise.

To comment on the video (or topic since I’ve yet to watch the video) I’ve had this fear since I was around 12 that I was small. I had spent a lot of time researching about it (didn’t even know if the “average size” meant ‘when erect’ which worried me even more!) and came to a point where I actually considered either never getting married at all or letting the girl I wanna get married to know that I was on the smaller side so she wont complain later lol. Amusing, I know.

Obviously porn made it worse. Moreover, reading about girls being impressed and enjoying a guy who was well hung didn’t help lift my spirits up either. Now I’m 23 and still a virgin (and don’t have a problem being one) but I’m more than happy with my 6.1 inch pecker.

I enjoyed reading all the comments, wut da girls had to say was deffinitely the most beneficial!! peace

lifeobserver,
why must you preach so heavily about your beliefs? whats the point of faith? do you not have faith that god will sort everything out? why are you wasting so much energy on this topic. sex is freakin awesome, and the reason your so god damn upity is because youve never busted nut off in a girl or on or wherever!! seriously man, you will calm down so much if you stop ignoring that pulsating in your weiner and stick it in a girl. please for the sake of top documenteriers and all of man kind, FORNICATE!!! FORNICATE GOD DAMNINT!! your an earthling, an animal, look what every other freakin speicies on this planet is doing!!!! then once you finally bust that nut, learn to make love to a women, your world will never be the same.

Wow some really candid and frank comments earlier on, plus some open minded content from the ladies. Then the discussion got high jacked. What a shame and a great pity for the boy!

man, your blowing this way out if preportion. comparing sex to rape and murder? everything you believe is because of a way your mind has been trained to think in this manner. you have been conditioned since a wee little boy to think and act the way you do. you speak of the free will of man? well you dont have free will, your conditioned to a zombie like state, except way more literate, and way more crazy… lol jk.. or not? the TRUE free will of man is what seperates us all as human beings, so many of us freely beliveing in our own inner connciousness to guide us in our daily lives and make our own concious choices. some of these choices have risks, absolutely. the difference between people like me and people like you, is that my free will is intact, you were probably stripped of it at birth, seeing as tho your day to day actions are bound by a book and a invisible man. you want to compare sex to rape and murder because of our uncontrolled free will, having no godly direction? well how bout i just put you in the same boat as the thousands of priests fondeling little boys? so its settled, murdering rapestists on one side, pedophiles on the other. damn… your side does sound a little better, looking for any new recruists?

People!!!!! Why are you trying to convince him to have sex! From my point of view one of him is MORE than enough!

He clearly watched “http://www.youtube.com/user/Jesusophile#p/u/23/iaZBSZ0xbfk”
and took it literally.

and your asian to right…? i could tell by your broken engrish.. and small weiner….

My penis is smaller than the guy who had surgery when not erect. It is around 8 inches (sometimes a little less sometimes a little more) when erect. So the nurses probably did not consider that the penis was not erect or assume that the erect size is close to the flaccid size.

Make love, not war.

@Yavanna – I can’t stop watching this guys videos! It’s such a perfect satire and I can see how SO many people will take this seriously! Absolutely hilarious, thanks for the link.

Got to love MrDeity, will check out EdCurrent and Pat Condell.

So after watching this video and “The Perfect Vagina” video I have come to the conclusion that many people, both men and women, are uncomfortable with their bodies…yet the parts that we worry about aren’t really that significant to the opposite sex, and it’s the other stuff like character and common interests, and such that really matter.

Also, I’ve read about a society when the preferred man has a short, thin penis…and if you want to insult someone you say that they have big genitals. So obviously the whole size thing is a western construct.

Personnally I think sex should be enjoyable, and a large penis definately doesn’t contribute to this – it can cause a lot of pain both during and after sex for the women.

Also, if there are any men out there you can answer this. As a women I’ve experienced pain during intercourse, do men experience any pain?

I’m not sure why people assume most Asian have small penis. my boyfriends who’s Asian is about 7 inches and hes 5′9. You cant compare a 6′2 guys penis with someone who’s 5′3 from Asia thats like cheating. I guess white guys are more insure than they are making jokes like Charles B. to make themselves feel better. I’ve dated white guys and they cant stay hard at all, kind of sad with their floppy penises. We like smooth hard penises, thats how we ladies roll.

What I donot understand is, no one has pictured his penis when errect! There is a big difference in the shape and size of an errect penis from when its is placid.In cold weather I can’t even see it,but when errect its above 5.5″